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How do I find a technical mentor?

Quick Answer

Join communities where builders hang out, be helpful to others, and build in public. Mentorship often develops organically from relationships, not formal arrangements.

Full Explanation

Finding a mentor is one of the best ways to accelerate your learning, but formal 'mentorship programs' are often less effective than organic relationships.

Where to find potential mentors:

Online communities:

  • Discord servers for AI tools you use (Lovable, Bolt communities)
  • Indie Hackers community
  • Twitter/X (follow builders, engage genuinely with their work)
  • Reddit communities (r/SideProject, r/startups)

Local communities (Melbourne-specific):

  • Melbourne startup meetups
  • Silicon Beach Australia
  • Local tech co-working spaces
  • University startup programs (even if you're not a student, some are accessible)

How to develop mentor relationships:

1. Be visible: Share what you're building, ask thoughtful questions, help others when you can.

2. Be specific: 'Can you help me understand why my database query is slow?' works better than 'Will you be my mentor?'

3. Provide value: Even as a beginner, you can offer perspective, test products, or help with non-technical tasks.

4. Be respectful of time: Experienced people get many requests. Come prepared, be efficient, express gratitude.

5. Let relationships develop naturally: Mentorship often emerges from repeated helpful interactions rather than formal arrangements.

Alternatives to traditional mentorship:

  • Paid office hours with experienced developers
  • Fractional CTOs who advise multiple startups
  • Online communities where experts answer questions

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